Bad and Sexy

Jeremy Meeks’ mugshot

I’m honestly furious and speechless. But I must try to approach this with the caution of a brain surgeon. I do not want to say anything that would come back to haunt me. So, I will do my best to keep my cool.

The social media has been in a frenzy over a dude named Jeremy Meeks, a convicted felon who was recently arraigned on counts of gang membership, firearm possession and probation violation. The dude has a lengthy rap sheet and has been in prison for years for grand theft. Reports are still unearthing more details about this guy. So far, it’s discovered that he’s a family man who’s supposedly trying to turn his life around.

Why is there so much fuss over this guy? It’s not so much of his criminal past. Although, it is part of the issue. The real deal is that his mugshot has spread all over the internet. And it has swoon countless women in its path.

I did a check on what was going on since this story broke out. More and more articles are published about how this ‘sexy felon’ has turned a lot of heads. One article even stated that this guy is so sexy that there’s an unofficial campaign asking for the release of Meeks. Numerous pictures have been photoshopped to have Meeks’ head appear on Calvin Klein, Hugo Boss and Givenchy posters. Yep. Apparently, he’s sexy enough to be a fashion model. He’s even sexy enough to start Twitter trends with hashtags like #FelonCrushFriday and #Felonbey. The mugshot of Jeremy Meeks has official become an insanely viral meme.

A photoshopped ad poster

I would imagine that this whole party will invite bitter males to testify how the whole sensation with Jeremy Meeks proves the age-old myth that women ignore good men just to get their hands on bad boys. Men who have had enough less-than-pleasant experiences with women to make such generalizations will see this whole craze with burning vexation chastizing the female gender for leaving them out in the cold while running towards the nearest thug. Then, they’ll gripe about how those kinds of women will end up pregnant, beaten, alone or worse. You know, something like how Elliot Rodger was before he went berserk in Santa Barbara.

I know. I was one of them. And when this story broke out, I was grumpy as hell. I thought about my own past and how I was treated by women. I also thought about how women still thought that famous men like Mel Gibson, Chris Brown, Charlie Sheen and George Clooney, to name a few, were womanizers and(or) women beaters. Yet, females still find them good enough to eat. And I went into full-on woman hater-mode.

But we need to step back and ponder a few things. We need to realize that badness is idolized and sexualized for the longest. We also need to understand that women are not the only ones known to adore those with foul reputations but has chiseled features and mesmerizing eyes. Men go crazy over shady and catty females, especially if they are sexy as hell. If they act wrong while shaking their boobs and asses in front of us, we get hooked. In fact, some of us prefer bad girls, bad in bed that is.

Let’s not leave out the LGBT community in this. They are not immune to this kind of attraction. There are people from every sexual orientation that sees badness as good.

We also need to realize that just because there are lots of women ogling this man, it doesn’t mean that they only prefer thugs over nice guys. They just see this man as a physical specimen of heaven. But that should not translate as them fawning over gangstas and leaving nice guys alone.

What defines a nice guy? What defines a bad boy? When I hear how women hate nice guys, but love bad boys from men who have problems with women and their supposed attraction to thugs, they usually follow it up with more rants persecuting the female gender. Most of the time, that’s all they bitch about, obviously stemming from their own pain. Yet, some of them consider themselves as ‘nice guys’. How nice of a dude are you if ya’ll you do is berate women day in and day out? They may even brag about how they have nice homes, nice cars, nice…whatever, and I’ve seen it, but that doesn’t make them ‘nice guys’. That makes them caught up in the flawed perception that material possessions are factors that determine the value of a human being’s worth and where they stand on the morality scale.

There is a double standard hidden in all this. I’ve noticed that when women go gaga over bad boys, we shake our heads and express our disgust at women for being wooed. Yet, when men melt over bad girls, many of us seem to want to warn men about those kinds of women. It seems that no matter what, women have something wrong with them and their taste in men.

How many people are going in on the women expressing their love for Jeremy Meeks while remaining silent about this troubled life? It’s one thing to discuss why so many of us are caught in the lure of badness. It’s another thing to only focus on one gender.

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58 thoughts on “Bad and Sexy

  1. I hate when men group all women in the same boat. All women are NOT impressed with bad boys. He may look good, but he is not good for you. That is the attitude that sensible women have. I used to like bad boys in high school, but that changed when I entered college.

    To make matters worse, I trolled other websites/blogs in which this subject was being discussed and black women were saying that “black” men were using this opportunity to attack black women yet again; saying things like you know the myth “black women love thugs” when women from various races and backgrounds were swooning over this guy. smdh.

    1. —-
      Originally Posted By Original Woman

      I hate when men group all women in the same boat. All women are NOT impressed with bad boys.
      —-

      Women ARE impressed by bad boys.

      Have you ever heard a woman say “My baby father is a really nice guy”

      Have you ever heard a woman say “All the men I have been with, have been really nice guys”

      Have you ?

      No. Neither have I. Think of all the women you know, family, friends and TEST OUT WHAT I AM SAYING and ask that question

      Once you test it out amongst all the women you know, you will see that the father was a jerk 90% of the time

      YET

      They try to teach their sons to be nice guys who respect women and put them on a pedestal. And what do these boys become ? “Nice guys”, “friends”, guys who have heard “You’re like a brother to me” so many times they want to puke.

      They should take a cue from Dad and realize that Mom liked jerks, she liked jerks so much that she let this jerk (who didn’t give a damn about her) impregnate her.

      What women say they want and what they respond to, are two very different things

      Don’t get me wrong, women like nice guys, they love them, they just do not F**K them.

      Yes, women like nice guys, but if that is not reflected in the guys looks (Especially if he is black man) or his bank balance, then she’ll reject that guy with no more hesitation than brushing away a street beggar.


      Originally Posted By Original Women

      I used to like bad boys in high school, but that changed when I entered college.
      —–

      For guys what ‘original woman’ is REALLY saying stealthily, with the above statement is

      ‘I’m sick of dating guys who make me so hot that I practically want to rip my clothes off for them. I’m sick of spreading my legs and being a complete sl*t, now I just want to settle down with a sperm donor, wallet and doormat. I’m ready for a nice guy simp, who treats me well, even though he’s not all that sexually attractive to me.”

      —–
      Originally Posted By Original Woman

      To make matters worse, I trolled other websites/blogs in which this subject was being discussed and black women were saying that “black” men were using this opportunity to attack black women yet again; saying things like you know the myth “black women love thugs” when women from various races and backgrounds were swooning over this guy. smdh.
      —–

      It’s not a race thing.

      You want to know why we don’t talk ? Because you don’t listen and would rather not hear what we have to say anyway. And even after we’ve said how we feel honestly, you’ll rip into us for being insensitive jerks and turn the conversation back towards yourselves and how your feelings are so important. And guess what happens, we shut down because we don’t want to hear your shrill, shrieking voices anymore.

      Women (Al women, black white, whatever) try to force men to accept their extremely self-centered, self-absorbed, self-obsessed, erroneous worldview, and when we don’t, they demonize us for it.

      P.S – Brothawolf, this is my first post on this blog, I’m from the UK, been a lurker and reader of your blog for years, spreading the messages for others to read this blog too, keep up the good work

      1. um… what? All men like strippers where is the outrage? All men like porn stars, where is the outrage? Men need to understand women choose who they want. If a woman likes a bad boy then guess what that is her right. How many men turn down nice women? I don’t hear them being talked about. People need to understand. If you know someone has a type and its not YOU move on. Idk why guys have such a hard time with rejection. Plus just because you are a nice guy does not make you entitled to the women you like lol. All the guys who said they were nice were really no different then the bad boys, except they could not get the women and attention the bad boy got. SMH

      2. @ Keith Essien
        Whoooooa! Slow your roll. Here we go again. Putting most if not all women in the same boat.

        “Women ARE impressed by bad boys.”
        NO. Not ALL women are impressed by bad boys. While many women are impressed by bad boys when they were younger (such as my self as I have stated in my original comment), SOME of us actually grow the hell up and see that bad boys ain’t gonna do you a damn bit of good from jump.

        Have you ever heard a woman say “My baby father is a really nice guy”

        WTF!?! Yes. My child’s father (still my boyfriend) is one of them. He’s a great father loves his daughter; takes care of her financially, physically, and emotionally. He is also been a great man to me.

        Have you ever heard a woman say “All the men I have been with, have been really nice guys”

        Again WTF!?! Yes and no. Some women have been with both good and bad guys while others are more careful in choosing their men, which eliminates the possibility of them ending up with a bad guy. For example, my mother has been married to my father (who has been a great husband/father) for 30+ years who died 5 years ago. My mother just started dating a nice, sweet, responsible, and dependable man who is a member at our church. There are other women in and out of my family with good men (who they have been with for a looong time) as well.

        For guys what ‘original woman’ is REALLY saying stealthily, with the above statement is

        ‘I’m sick of dating guys who make me so hot that I practically want to rip my clothes off for them. I’m sick of spreading my legs and being a complete sl*t, now I just want to settle down with a sperm donor, wallet and doormat. I’m ready for a nice guy simp, who treats me well, even though he’s not all that sexually attractive to me.”

        How dare that you imply that I’m a slut! I remained a virgin all during high school. Shortly thereafter, I met my daughter’s father(still my boyfriend). We became friends before we became lovers. HE IS THE ONLY MAN THAT I HAVE EVER SLEPT WITH! I said I liked bad boys; didn’t sleep with them (which again benefited me in the long run).

        It’s not a race thing.

        You want to know why we don’t talk ? Because you don’t listen and would rather not hear what we have to say anyway. And even after we’ve said how we feel honestly, you’ll rip into us for being insensitive jerks and turn the conversation back towards yourselves and how your feelings are so important. And guess what happens, we shut down because we don’t want to hear your shrill, shrieking voices anymore.

        You right it’s not but SOME self-hating negros did. If you would go back and carefully read the original comment, you would see that I was NOT talking about ALL black men. When I said “black women were saying that “black” men were using this opportunity to attack black women yet again” I meant so-called brothas who love to use social media to spew anti-black woman hatred and venom. Again, if you go back and read carefully you would see that I said that “women from various races and backgrounds were swooning over this guy.” Please always read carefully before you comment.

        Women (Al women, black white, whatever) try to force men to accept their extremely self-centered, self-absorbed, self-obsessed, erroneous worldview, and when we don’t, they demonize us for it.

        I can’t make a grown man/woman accept my worldview and I don’t even try. People have varying worldviews. I know that to be fact. Demonizing someone for having a different worldview in my opinion is closed-minded and silly.

        P.S. Brothawolf, I didn’t plan on going on and on, but I had to put Keith in check.

  2. I laughed at guys that got butthurt because it seriously is not that serious. And many guys love bad girls so they can shove the double standard, I am glad you mentioned that. The whole point is men like to tell women how they fall short but hate being reminded of their own ills. Honestly the situation was all humor. The guy should model and turn his life around. The men upset are the men who look nothing like this guy and do not have women swooning over them. They can get out of their feelings and find the woman for them, attracted to them, rather then feeling as though everyone woman they like should give them attention or time.

  3. Lots of women would think they hit the lotto if they got with this guy. I guess as human beings we are pretty superficial. The women if nothing but engaging in a harmless daydreams but would never dream of taking him home to meet the family. The guys getting angry over the woman fantasizing over this guy is just crazy and kind of scary because some of the vitriol hurled at the women reminded me of the last month nutjob Elliott Rodgers. Men who feel that women just want a thug/bad boy instead of a good and decent man like themselves. Anyway people’s reactions have been pretty interesting.

      1. Is it only me? I don’t think this guy is a box of chocolates, but then again I have always preferred ruggedly handsome men. This guys to ‘pretty’ for my taste. As for ‘thugs’? What is that? You can have a ‘nice’ guy who goes home at night and beats his wife. You can have a nice guy with a corporate job, doctor, lawyer, engineer etc, who cheats, is a drunkard or drug addict and generally abusive. Is he a nice guy because he has the facade of respectability? Folks, men, believe it or not are human beings with foibles like the rest of us. If the man respects and treats you well as you would him, than that is all that counts.

        The clowns like this goof in the picture is grossly dysfunctional, however, for some perverse reason, people are ‘attracted’ to these types for whatever reason. Humans are complex. 400 years of oppression produces these self-loathing types. Even If I see a man I am attracted to, if he is an asshole, the attraction quickly dissipates.

  4. There is a double standard hidden in all this. I’ve noticed that when women go gaga over bad boys, we shake our heads and express our disgust at women for being wooed. Yet, when men melt over bad girls, many of us seem to want to warn men about those kinds of women.

    BINGO!!!!! Great post, BrothaWolf! Awesome in the way you turned the tables. I thought this was going to be another critique of women’s taste in men but you instead called out the hypocrites. *applause* Brava.

    1. I see a lot of that going around. We seem to be almost silent about ‘bad boys’ and their attitudes, but we scold women who fall for them. Yet, we tell men to watch out for women who have dirty streaks. Either way, it’s men first and women last.

  5. By the way, considering how some of the wealthiest, most pampered, privileged celebrities have looked like utter shit in their mugshots, I gotta give Meeks some props. I didn’t know that was a mugshot until you said so. I thought he was a model!

    1. There are rumors he is getting offers once he gets out of jail. But they say he has to lose the tats on his neck though.


  6. Orginally Posted By Mary B

    The guys getting angry over the woman fantasizing over this guy is just crazy and kind of scary because some of the vitriol hurled at the women reminded me of the last month nutjob Elliott Rodgers.
    —-

    Most men find the behaviour of women disgusting. You’re a big girl, I’m sure you can deal with it.

    And then there’s the, ” reminded me of the last month nutjob Elliott Rodgers.” line Reserved for when the woman can’t think of anything else. It’s incredible how they all turn into armchair psychologists when somebody says something they don’t like.

    Women complain about men a lot, so there must be something legitimate behind the complaint, right ? But chew on this idea: say that you have a poor laborer living in a sweatshop with a broken fan. Now, say that you have a guest in a luxury hotel with broken air-conditioning. Which one is more likely to complain ?

    We are living in the sweatshop. Ask Elliot Rodger

    More and more women will suffer unless you give men options


    Originally Posted By Mary B

    Lots of women would think they hit the lotto if they got with this guy. I guess as human beings we are pretty superficial. The women if nothing but engaging in a harmless daydreams but would never dream of taking him home to meet the family
    Men who feel that women just want a thug/bad boy instead of a good and decent man like themselves. Anyway people’s reactions have been pretty interesting.

    I’ve resigned myself to letting women make their crappy mistakes over and over with me. The big thing that does bother me as that we have to live with the massive consequences of their idiocy and destructiveness.

    They make not take him home to meet their family – So what ? But they would have sex with him

    1) Wild Sex
    2) Tea and biscuits with her folks

    I know which one I’d choose and pretty every man in the planet would choose

  7. I’m not going to lie ,he’s physically hot,but that is all I will say about him.Definitely wouldn’t want to date/marry him

  8. A sista on Facebook posted this about him. I really feel what she’s saying! I agree with her 100%!

    “The 30-year-old Stockton, CA convicted felon is being held on $900,000 bail for illegally possessing firearms and ammo, carrying a loaded firearm in public and criminal street gang activity. The specific charge is street terrorism.”

    In addition to the comments on the picture, I’ve read comments of women stating the sexually explicit things they would do to him, how they love thugs and want to have his babies.

    And we have the nerve to complain about the lack of good men! Apparently we aren’t looking for a good man. We want that thug love. That thug passion. The Bad Boy.

    This is very telling of the state of mind that women have today. We are forward. We are thirsty. We are sexually aggressive. And of course this showcases another form of hypocrisy. We chatise Men for their reaction to women and their looks and here we are fawning over a criminal!

    We’d be all over men if the roles were reversed. We’d call them dogs, berate them and of course remind them that this is why good women are being passed over but we are to busy passing ourselves to bad boys to notice the good men.

    And if a criminal catches our eye and makes us lose control it’s very easy to see how we end up in dysfunctional relationships with multiple baby daddies. It doesn’t take much. Be attractive. Be a thug. Have no ambition but I’ll have your babies. ..then I’ll complain about the bum I laid down with knowing you were a bum when I met you.

    Good men are an afterthought after we let the bad boys run through us. Give us children. Sit around our house while WE pay the bills. Get disrespected. Then after we have a high body mileage we want the good man. We want him to play Daddy to the children we had with the bad boy or bad boys. The same men we mocked we look for them to marry us.

    So we look for the cream of the crop to wife up bottom feeders. And I say bottom feeders because we were fueled by our lower selves.

    “One user has set up a Facebook fan page for Meeks, who is being held in the San Joaquin County Jail on $900,000 bail.”

    This is what we’re willing to do for a CRIMINAL. ..but let our Baby Daddy be behind on his child support…we’d show him NO mercy.

  9. He is not hot. I like his eyes and that is it. He is a criminal who exclusively dates White women and hasn’t contributed anything to our communities. Thus I refuse to support this man. I am tired of supporting people who don’t care about me and our communities.

  10. He kinda looks like marcus Patrick. anyway, I agree it is a double standard, if a woman goes crazy over guys like this then something is wrong with women, but If a guy chooses a girl that is crazy people feel sorry for him and still blame the woman.

    Also self hate plays into this as well, we have some people within our community that go crazy over people with features like this guy, and they don’t care how the person is they just care about what they look like and want to have kids with them. I also know there are women from other races going crazy as well, just look at the bs, so trayvon martin was a “thug”, but this guy has a record but,just because he is light skinned, has blue eyes, and looks like a model people want to free him, gtfoh. There are black men and women in prison that have been falsely accused of crimes that deserve to be freed, not this guy.

    “What defines a nice guy? What defines a bad boy?”They may even brag about how they have nice homes, nice cars, nice…whatever, and I’ve seen it, but that doesn’t make them ‘nice guys’. That makes them caught up in the flawed perception that material possessions are factors that determine the value of a human being’s worth and where they stand on the morality scale.”

    this is exactly what I’ve been talking about, people love to call other people thugs and say they are nice, but what makes u so nice? what is a nice person, is it someone that goes to church on sunday, goes to school, has a nice house and car? if that is someone’s definition of a nice guy lord help them, there are plenty of guys out there that fit this description, but just because they appear to have their ish together does not mean it is true. There are people that have a nice car but are in debt trying to pay it off, there are people with nice houses but are behind on their mortgage, there are people that go to school, but are failing, Just look at social media all it is, is people frontin and acting like they are living the high life, when the life they portray is different from the life they live, people have learned to live double lives they have learned to fake the funk.

    I do not want a nice guy, because anybody can be nice or fake being nice to get what they want. I want a genuine good guy.

    Nice definition:pleasing; agreeable; delightful ,pleasant; kind.

    vs

    good definition:

    morally excellent; virtuous; righteous; satisfactory in quality. of high quality; excellent. right; proper; fit: well-behaved.

    there is a difference between being nice and being good, u can be nice and be a bad person. Racists, rapists, child molesters, can be nice, pleasing, delightful, and agreeable to get what they want. people that go on rampages and kill people can be nice, when the news interviews the neighbors, coworkers, friends, family, of the person that went and shot up a place, what do they usually say? oh he was such a nice person. a nice person pretends and puts up an image for the world to see, a good person actually lives it.

    1. there is a difference between being nice and being good, u can be nice and be a bad person. Racists, rapists, child molesters, can be nice, pleasing, delightful, and agreeable to get what they want. people that go on rampages and kill people can be nice, when the news interviews the neighbors, coworkers, friends, family, of the person that went and shot up a place, what do they usually say? oh he was such a nice person. a nice person pretends and puts up an image for the world to see, a good person actually lives it.

      There it is! 🙂

    2. @ mstoogood4yall-

      Brilliant the way you broke down the difference between “nice” and “good.” Bravo!

      One is a facade, the other genuine. Most people, *if* they are truly paying attention, can detect the difference. Also, great way you noted how these depraved killers are typically described as “nice” by those closest to them.

      Whenever a guy says that he is a “nice” guy, my red flag goes up and I try to exit his company as calmly as I can.

      ********************************************************************************************

      Men love to criticize that women want bad boys, yet they chase the women who want the bad boys…. I don’t understand it. Why not go after a woman who is like yourself? Perhaps because they wish that they were themselves bad boys and are therefore jealous of the attention that they bad boys get?

      *********************************************************************************************

      Men seem to think that no matter how plain, uninteresting, unattractive, socially maladjusted, or boring they are, they “deserve” the love/affection/attention/sex from a pretty woman who is a “7, 8, 9, or 10.”

      The movies push this nonsense, but an adult should know that life does not work the same way a John Hughes film does- you do not get the pretty, popular, or cool girl/guy, s/he will, for rare occasions, want to be with a (wo)man that is his/her equal.

      It is almost as if people do not understand human attraction or perhaps they feel like they are special snowflakes…..

      ************************************************************************************

      As far as the #prettyfelon is concerned, when I saw the pic w/ the teardrop I thought three things-
      -mugshot= arrest = caution
      -he might have Hepatitis from cheap prison tattoos
      -teardrop tattoos denote killer (an interview that I saw, he said that he’d “done a few things that he was not proud of.”)

      **************************************************************************************

  11. This pic of his mugshot doesn’t show the tattoos, could it be that they are trying to make him appear more innocent, because this is the mugshot with tattoos.
    http://www.abplive.in/incoming/article347391.ece/alternates/FREE_768/Jeremy%20Meeks

    I think it is normal to find people attractive whether they are good or bad, but it is dysfunctional when u know that person is bad for u yet u excuse it because of their good looks. people will make excuses for somebody as long as they are fine, I remember that case where that teacher was messing with her student and they said she was too pretty for prison, really so I guess prison should be reserved for ugly people that commit crimes and not attractive people that commit crimes. smh.

  12. No offense Brotha but I take exception when you try and lump Chris Brown with the likes of Charlie Sheen and Mel Gibson. The problem for me with that is that white males celebrities are treated with kid gloves ANY time they do wrong and that’s bullshit. Let’s be real here the only reason he is getting attention is because white people have a problem with him being seen as anything but a ‘thug’. Plenty of white women had the hots for Ted Bundy yet he was one of the most despicable people on Earth. In fact all white male serial killers have women clamoring after them. Before he was executed Bundy was getting 300 letters a month from women. And this was a guy that bit off half of a woman’s nipple! He also was a pedophile and beat a girl’s face so badly that they couldn’t identify her with dental records because he knocked her teeth out. Yet he is still seen as a romantic figure by the media. Frankly I don’t get the fascination but I feel this story is only getting steam because white people want another excuse to vilify a black man[even half of one]for their ratings.

    1. No offense taken.

      I wrote this to discuss the point that many people think women love roguish men. I wasn’t thinking about it being a race issue when I wrote this, even though you are correct in how the public and media treat male celebs of different colors.

      1. @ True Black:

        Thank you. I read the article and watched the video you sent. I had watched another video on YouTube about this case. What foolishness!


  13. Originally Posted By BrothaWolf

    Keith, are you sexist, or rather, do you have a problem with women? Also, do you think you are a good man?

    I will admit. I hate women with EVERY FIBER of my being and that hatred comes from the very pit of my soul.

    I would love to see these sassy, arrogant, self entitled, women who in regards to men have a deep BBD (Bigger, Better, Deal) mentality, you know they all think, they can get someone better.

    I would love to see these same women in the west, go over to my parents country (Nigeria) or any Muslim country like Saudia Arabia or Iraq and go down and talk down to the men over there

    Go on ladies, go to Nigeria and talk down to the brothers over there…go on…go try…go try….I DARE YOU…..but if you do, please be prepared to be taken outside have the S**T kicked out you, get ready to beaten to within inch of your life if you try to run your mouth over here.

    Elliot Rodger ? To me. I love him. Arrest me. I’m not happy at what he did, nor am i sad. I don’t care. Maybe women will for once see where men are coming from

    MORE WOMEN WILL DIE UNLESS YOU GIVE MEN OPTIONS

    The irony with women is that

    They are not special.
    They are not gorgeous.
    They are not brilliant.
    They are not sophisticated.

    Most will never do anything special or influential in their entire lives ! I’m also sick and tired of how picky women are.

    What gives them the right ?

    I’ve also learned another thing this to the guys

    Never F**KING lower your standards.

    Ugly girls are just as snooty and arrogant as good looking ones. You may as well get rejected by a decent looking girl, because there is really NOTHING like asking out a girl you’d have to close your eyes to F**K and hearing she doesn’t have time for you.

    When girls say “Maybe you should go for a plain girl” or “Ugly girl”

    Don’t F**KING listen to them !!!!! Stop listening to whatever they have to say !!! and just walk away. Because they’re F**KING LYING !! IT’S NOT TRUE!!! UGLY GIRLS ARE NOT LESS PICKY !!!

    Misogynists are not born, they are made. Hating women is the only thing I have left to do. I’m too good to respond with violence or anything so trite and barbaric. I’m above it and beyond it. I AM A BETTER MAN !!

    Indeed, I’ve given up the idea of ever having a woman as a part of my romantic life.

    I’m a MISOGYNIST. I declare it, not proudly, but without shame. I refuse to accept the shame that women have tried to place upon me. I’m a MISOGYNIST, without apology to anyone. I’m a MISOGYNIST, from now until women show themselves worthy of something better than hatred. I’m a MISOGYNIST from now until the day I die.

  14. ..Awesome azz insightful post as always, dear ‘Wolf! Excellent and valid points made by all (except ole’ krazy-pants “K”)! lol I personally find this guy to be overhyped as well, especially in regards to his felonious charges that he is currently facing. as for those pregnant female prison guards, if I had a dollar for all the drama that has occurred with certain (unnamed) Californians at San Quentin, let’s just say I’d have a lot o’ dollar menu faves for my whole inner circle o’ cronies today! :p

    1. Ladies, there is one advantage being married to a prisoner; you know where the asshole is at night! He will ‘love’ you as long as he is incarcerated and you give him canteen money.

  15. I wrote about this awhile back… While I understand why many western men are confused about the feminine mind and I also get women lie about what attracts them, thanks to the Madonna/Whore (slut-shaming) language, the men who bitch about who women choose via YouTube and the blogosphere literally makes me sick. It sickens me to learn men like this are on the rise, just like “thirsty niggas”.

    https://homeiswherethehateis.wordpress.com/2014/09/08/jeremy-meeks-was-a-prime-example-of-the-female-sexual-liberation-and-the-feminine-desire-for-thug-dick/

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